How To Create Accountability As A 'Spender'

Raise your hand if you’re a self-proclaimed ‘spender?’ 

A recent poll conducted by the New York Post revealed that 56% of Americans identify themselves as "spenders," indulging in purchases they truly desire. 

While treating oneself occasionally is perfectly acceptable, establishing accountability for spenders is crucial to maintaining financial well-being and stability. 

3 Strategies To Establish Financial Accountability 

1. Create A Realistic Budget:  One of the most effective ways to establish accountability for spenders is through budgeting and the tracking of expenses. Create a monthly budget that outlines all of your expenses and allocates a specific amount of spending money.

2. Set Clear Financial Goals:  This can be a powerful motivator for responsible spending. Start by defining your short-term and long-term objectives, such as paying off debt, saving for a vacation, or contributing a certain dollar amount towards retirement. Having tangible goals creates a sense of purpose and can help you think twice before making impulsive purchases. 

3. Find A Trusted Accountability Partner:  Pairing up with a trusted friend, spouse, or financial advisor creates a support system to hold each other accountable for your spending decisions. Regular check-ins, discussions about financial goals, and shared progress can significantly impact and reinforce responsible spending habits.

Remember, being a spender doesn't have to conflict with being financially responsible; it's all about finding the right balance.

How Do I Start Saving?

Are you tired of the never-ending struggle to save money? Do you find yourself caught in a cycle of starting to save, losing track, and then starting over again?

It's time to take a step back and evaluate your foundation. Is it the RIGHT foundation to help you achieve your financial plans, hopes, and dreams?

• Have you set your financial goals? (What are you working towards…)

• Do you have an emergency fund built for when life happens? (Are you protecting yourself with the right insurance: health, home, car, disability, etc)

• Prepare for known, upcoming expenses. (Like birthdays, insurance premiums, property taxes, etc. These should not bust your budget!)

After reviewing your foundation, start prioritizing your savings. Treat saving money with the same level of importance as paying bills. Consider it a debt owed to yourself. Recognize that saving money is a choice and prioritize it over non-essential expenses.

A few tips:

• Separate Your Savings: To prevent accidental spending, move your savings to a separate bank account. This separation creates a mental barrier and makes it less tempting to dip into your savings for impulsive purchases.

• Use Cash Envelopes for Specific Expenses: For impulsive cash areas like groceries, dining out, entertainment, and clothing, use cash envelopes. Allocate a fixed amount for each category and stick to it!

• Reevaluate Subscriptions and Daily Habits: Identify and cut out unnecessary membership subscriptions or daily habits that drain your finances. Do you need every single streaming platform? Probably not.

• Seek Better Insurance Deals: Consider changing insurance providers for home and auto to potentially find better deals.

Remember, it's never too late to start saving – the key is to take that first step and stay consistent on your financial journey!

5 Questions To Ask Before Spending Money

Do you ever get caught in the cycle of  “see it, want it, and buy it?” Before you spend you haven’t stopped to think through what you’re buying.  Now you not only have a new purchase that’s all yours, but you also have a high monthly payment to go with it.

Let’s overcome that spending habit with these 5 practical questions to ask yourself before spending a substantial amount of money.   Practical questions that will help you truly understand the enormity of the decision, and help you make the decision that is best for you and your family.

Question 1: “Do I Need This?”

Pausing to ask, “Do I need this?”, can prevent a lot of poor spending decisions.   I’m not saying that I never purchase things that are pure “wants” – I am saying that when I ask the key question, I make much smarter overall decisions.

This question becomes a “gatekeeper” of sorts.  Something to help prevent impulsive spending.

BONUS: Wait overnight before answering the question!   It is amazing the clarity that a good night of sleep will bring to a spending decision!

Question 2: “Will This Item INCREASE Or DECREASE In Value?”

Chewing gum goes down in value.   So do cars, 4-wheelers, refrigerators, swimming pools, and clothes.

Businesses can go up in value.   So can houses, land, antiques, mutual funds, company stocks, bonds, and intellectual property (patents, licenses, etc).

Here is what I KNOW: Not all of your purchases can be for items that increase in value, but if ALL of your purchases go down in value – something ain’t right!

BONUS: Find someone you know who is prospering with their investments.   Invite them to lunch (pay for his/her lunch) and ask them to mentor you!   They will probably LOVE IT!

Question 3: “Do I Have The Money To Pay CASH For This Item?”

I know that the day I started asking this question was THE DAY that my family started winning with money.

If I do not have the cash to pay for it, I’m not buying it UNLESS it is a house or an asset that will increase in value (like a business, rental house, etc).   Even then, the answer is still usually “NO!” unless I have all of the money available to pay cash.

Question 4: “Will This Purchase Generate Income For Me Or Take Income Away?”

What an incredible question to ask – and what a difference it will make in the way you think about money!   I used to earn money and then immediately begin pondering which fun item I was going to buy.  I rarely (if ever) thought about the fact that I could use the money to buy in to a small business, purchase stocks and mutual funds, start a small business, or purchase a rental home.

Even more, I did not truly realize the ACTUAL cost of many of the items I had purchased.   I had purchased a new car (my smokin’ hot Chevy Cavalier) and I only thought of the bank loan as my “cost” to purchase.   In actuality, I also added the costs of insurance, property taxes, license tags, maintenance, repairs, and additional gasoline consumption. Not to mention the lost potential to make money with what I was currently sinking into all the bills associated with that car.

Before you spend, just stop and ponder the options available to you to use those resources to generate more income for you in the future.

BONUS: Review your budget to see how much your current possessions are costing you on an ongoing basis.  There are many purchases that are “gifts that keep on giving.”  By looking at things you’ve already purchased, or subscriptions you already have, you can find ways to lower your expenses.

Question 5: “Will This Help Me Achieve My Future Plans, Hopes, And Dreams?”

Without a longer-term perspective, it becomes extremely easy to fall into the trap of living for the minute, and immediately spending every single dime we earn.   As one develops a longer-term perspective, it really helps us recognize that spending all of our money right away will rip our future dreams away from us!

When my family first got started on improving our financial future (Dec 2002), I noticed that we started looking a few months ahead.   Now, eighteen years later, my entire perspective has shifted.   You see, I want to leave a legacy for my children and community.   I want to leave a huge inheritance to my family, church, and others.   My wife and I want to give our children a paid-for college education.   We want to give them a paid-for house when they graduate.   We desire to teach them to manage their finances recognizing that it is not just FOR THEM, it is FOR THEM TO HELP OTHERS!

So Before You Spend…

THINK!  Think about what this big purchase means.  Not just the temporary gratification, but how it will impact you in the long run.

My hope is that by slowing down and asking yourself these questions you will be able to gauge how important a large purchase is to you, and how it will benefit you.